XenLoveCare
Private care for Black Men who are ready to exhale.
A fully prepared, deeply held experience, built in response to you.
Session structure
How the Work Is Held
This is not a space where you are asked to perform, explain, or push through.
Each session is a private, non-clinical experience, rooted in somatic care, presence, and nervous system regulation and held within clear professional boundaries.
You are not required to have the right words.
You are not required to go deeper than what feels natural.
The work meets you where you are.
all sessions are designed to allow the body to settle first
From there, the experience unfolds through stillness, presence, and where appropriate, grounding touch.
Nothing is forced.
Nothing is rushed.
Nothing is repeated.
The Return - 2 Hours
Entry Point. Begin to settle
Start here if you are not sure what you need.
A structured entry point into somatic care and nervous system regulation.
This session creates space for the body to slow down, settle, and begin releasing accumulated tension without pressure.
Best for:
- feeling constantly on
- Difficulty slow
- Wanting something supportive, not overwhelming
Starting at $600
The Return creates space for the body to arrive, decompress, and began shifting out of a constant state of activation.
The Reset - 3 Hours
Deeper release. Sustained Support
For those carrying ongoing stress, pressure, or emotional weight.
With more time, the nervous system is able to move beyond surface tension and begin recalibrating toward a more regulated state.
This extended session allows more time for the body to fully settle And for deeper layers of tension to release.
Best for:
- sustained stress or burnout
- Feeling mentally or physically loaded
- Needing more time to unwind
Starting at $850
Immersive Care - 4+ Hours
Full system reset. Sustained support.
This is a deeper, extended experience designed for those who need more than just a single session.
Time is held differently here.
The body is giving space not to just settle, but to fully calm down, rest, and re-organize without interruption.
Depending on what is needed, this experience may include:
Extended time in a fully prepared environment
Periods of rest and integration
Nourishment and support throughout the session
And in some cases, overnight or multi-phase care
Nothing is fixed. The structure is built in response to you.
Best for:
- Chronic stress or long-term tension
- Sustain mental or physical load
- Those who have not had space to fully stop in a long time
Custom/Extended Experience
*Most Black Men are used to pushing through*
This work requires something different: time, space, and the absence of urgency
The length of each session is intentional because the body does not rush its way into regulation
